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Chris Crain is the former editor of the Washington Blade and now edits www.GayNewsWatch.com. He can be reached via www.citizencrain.com.

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Cross-dressing and blogger hypocrisy
The ‘big H’ runs in both directions in latest GOP sex scandal.

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Nov 09, 2007  |  By: CHRIS CRAIN  | COMMENTS      Printer Friendly Version

THE BLACKMAIL SEX scandal that cost Richard Curtis his seat in the Washington state Legislature is shaping up as a real classic and the gay blogosphere was more than happy to pass on every juicy detail. There are some interesting twists, however, that are showing the predictable pack of salivating bloggers themselves are guilty of “the big H” — that would be hypocrisy.

Curtis, a conservative Republican two-term lawmaker, reported to police that he was being blackmailed by a male escort he met in an adult video store. Though Curtis has since denied it in interviews, he told police he had sex with the escort, who then stole his wallet and later called demanding $1,000 or he would expose Curtis’ double life to his wife.

Curtis went to police with the hope of making the whole thing go away, but that decision backfired. Police asked him to share everything about his encounter with the escort, 26-year-old Cody Castagna, and all the details wound up in the police report, and hence the public domain and (inevitably) the blogosphere.

The information in the police report was particularly juicy, considering Curtis apparently dressed in women’s lingerie.

Gay bloggers had a field day, giving us permission to revel in every salacious detail of this private, consensual sexual encounter because Curtis is “very anti-gay,” as one gossipmonger put it. In blogger-speak, that means Curtis voted against two gay rights bills, though no one has yet produced homophobic rhetoric or evidence he played a leadership role on the issue.

NEVERTHELESS, A COUPLE of votes on the wrong side of gay issues is all it takes these days to expose every detail of an elected official’s sex life to public dissection on the blogs, with no detail too private or too embarrassing.

If the police report is accurate, the really serious hypocrisy is a personal one, between Curtis and his wife, assuming she does not know or approve of his man-on-man adventures. Hence his vulnerability to blackmail.

The criminal part of this story has gotten almost completely lost in all the joyous reveling in the salacious personal details of this man’s private sex life. The only reason we know anything about any of this is that Curtis alleges he was blackmailed and went to police for protection. Doesn’t that matter?

Only passing reference has been made by bloggers and their “amen” chorus of commenters to the felony unpleasantness that had befallen poor Rep. Curtis. Apparently the revelry isn’t as much fun if we’re reminded that the target of our snickers is himself the victim of a crime.

And fun is the theme here, especially for Dan Savage, the gay advice columnist who has made his entire career based on other people’s sex lives, though usually at the stranger’s (anonymous) request. “I spent the last hour wading through the 15 page police report. Holy crap!” Savage reported excitedly on his blog. “Curtis, hoping to keep this whole thing quiet, called the police himself. And when the police asked him what happened, Curtis told them everything.”

Isn’t that hilarious? For all we know, Curtis is the victim of blackmail, but it’s a real knee-slapper how Savage and company have picked up right where the blackmailer left off, exposing every private sexual detail they can get their hands on, and with giddy commentary to boot.

IT’S ALL JUSTIFIED, of course, because there’s no crime more serious to the sex police of the left than hypocrisy — which is why it’s interesting to see how these same bloggers have reacted to news that Curtis enjoys wearing women’s lingerie.

Cross-dressers and transvestites (who have a sexual fetish for clothing of the opposite sex) are both examples of transgenderism, the “T” in our happy GLBT community.

We certainly have no business disparaging cross-dressing since we were reminded again and again in the debate over the Employment Non-Discrimination Act that we queers are all gender transgressors of one form or another. It’s a surprise, then, to see how cross-dressing is being treated by the leftie gay blogosphere.

Not only are we now enthusiastically finishing a would-be blackmailer’s work for him, but we’re betraying the “respect” we claim to be demanding from society at large to a part of our supposed community. The politics of personal destruction show no signs of letting up.



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jeri .
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publicly "outing" ANYONE is just wrong. even politicians. i know that i was lying to myself much more vehemently thatn to anyone else. that is all curtis has been doing. coming to terms with what is a socially ostracized reality about oneself is difficult enough - God knows it was for me. by joining in the degredation of this man, we are mocking ourselves. sometimes, i don't understand people. i suppose they need to degrade others to feel better about themselves. i think it would be better to extend dignity to others, and consider yourself a small part of that whole.

Posted 11/10/07 - 12:51 PM


RichardTravierra
San Jose, Ca
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I find it despicable that a liberal media elite like Chris Crain would vicously out an innocent family man like Richard Curtis. It is homosexual militants like you who destroy wholesome, healthy families like the Curtis'. You are too cowardly to face his children with your outrageous charges. You are the reason that homosexuals get a bad reputation because you flaunt your lifestyle so forcibly on people who don't want to practice your lifestyle and could care less what you do behind closed doors.

Posted 11/10/07 - 6:00 PM


jeri .
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richard, you are joking, right? chris crain was defending curtis. what is wrong? did you get a brazilian today that didn't work and left you all bumpy?

Posted 11/10/07 - 8:24 PM


BobVB
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Blackmail is about hiding the truth so someone can avoid consequences and pretty much the opposite of revealing the truth regardless of those consequences. Curtis and his blackmailer are two peas in a pod - both trying to gain from deception. One may be more sympathetic than the other but revealing the lies of either is not hypocrisy to those interested in truth.

Posted 11/11/07 - 2:29 AM


jeri .
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bob, being gay -or transgender- is a personal truth. you can only share that truth with others after you come to terms with it yourself. i would not call a failure to disclose deception, if the individual hasn't accepted it themselves. as far as being like a blackmailer, i don't get it. threatening to hurt someone - emotionally, financially, politically, whatever - unless they meet your demands is a very seperate issue. hypocrisy? i think what is hypocritical is degrading curtis because he is gay, because he has not yet come to terms with it. i was in his place once, as were most if not all of us. seeking truth? the truth is we are all human beings before we are gay or anything else. why not treat each other with some simple humanity? curtis being gay does not strip him of his humanity; if he can embrace it, it will eventually enhance it.

Posted 11/11/07 - 12:18 PM


BobVB
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Jeri, not telling the truth is being deceptive no matter what the underlying reasons. Curtis knew he was sexually attracted to men - he even told the erotic store clerk he'd known. And every time he voted against people just like him he was 'threatening to hurt someone - emotionally, financially, politically, whatever - unless they meet his demands', i.e. pretend they weren't gay, or that being gay was bad. I was in 'his place' once too, that did relieve me or him the consequences of my actions. Some of us don't do much damage during our 'coming out' some of us do, but we all are responsible for the damage we do - some of us just get off lucky, Richard didn't.

Posted 11/12/07 - 12:42 PM


BobVB
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oops "didn't relieve me..."

Posted 11/12/07 - 12:43 PM


jeri .
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i don't know what was going through curtis mind....there was "another: side of him that he was fighting? perhaps, the old story "methinks the gentleman doth protest too much." of course he knew about the physical act - did that convince you? isn't it possible he was still in 'denial" that he was 'really gay"? i really don't know, and i am not in a hurry to judge him because i find out he is having a gay liason. it reminds me of when larry craig denounced barney frank when barney got caught involved with a male prostitute. sordid, stupid stuff. and sure, it has bitten larry craig in the butt. clinton and lewinsky, frank, craig and now curtis. we are a sexual species. everybody has sex except nixon and bush. does that make us less human or more so? what is the gain in pointing fingers?

Posted 11/12/07 - 4:08 PM


BobVB
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I guess we are talking at cross purposes - I don't care if Richard Curtis has sex, but he is responsible for the results when he does, simple as that. Again, no one 'outed' Richard, HE initiated the police investigation He betrayed his wife and his constituents on many levels of deceit and deception. The least of what all his victims deserve is the truth. Do I feel sorry for him? A bit, but not enough to give him a pass for all that he's done.

Posted 11/12/07 - 5:54 PM


anonymous
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I am not sure why Chris Cain is such an apologist for Republicans or conservatives. I'm an independent voter, so I see errors on both sides. But Cain's almost sycophantic allegiance with conservatives makes him overlook how DAMAGING IT IS TO VOTE AGAINST GAY LEGISLATION WHILE BEING GAY YOURSELF! How could Cain not see the OBVIOUS in this TWISTED column: this statesman sought to make a picture of himself as a married, heterosexual, anti-gay-voting official and then BROKE THE LAW by paying a prostitute for sex. Cross-dressing or not, this does not have to do with ENDA. It's about a TRUE hypocrite. Rep. Curtis is the one who broke the law originally and who broke gay's trust by seeking a "gay sex" while voting against gay rights. What a foolish column that panders to the wrong people!

Posted 11/13/07 - 8:57 AM


jeri .
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curtis' political anti-gay stance was and IS despicable. anyone who defends an anti-gay position is, IMHO, an ignorant bigot and quite likely to be a closet case. people who are comfortable with their own sexuality don't feel threatened by the sexuality of others.****** the moral high ground? we demean ourselves to criticize anyone for being gay - even closet case politicians who have exhibited ignorant and bigoted positions on gay rights. we should be a LOT better than the bigots. we should not join in the criticism when we discover that someone is gay.

Posted 11/13/07 - 9:34 AM


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