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Gerard Tyler, a 54-year-old D.C. resident who found he was infected in 1990, said the recent spike in HIV infections means people still are not taking safe-sex precautions.
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‘I really didn’t think it would happen to me’
Younger gays infected with HIV underestimated seriousness of disease


Friday, August 22, 2008

It doesn’t affect me.

That was the perspective that Victor, a 33-year-old D.C. resident, had about HIV before he learned in 2005 that he was infected with the disease.

Victor, who requested his full name be withheld, said before he contracted HIV he thought the disease was “something that happened to someone else.”

“It’s just one of those sort of off-the-wall crazy things that is never really going to happen to me,” Victor said. “It’s just another possibility along with being killed in a building by a plane.”

Damian, a 34-year-old D.C. resident who also requested his full name be withheld, similarly thought he would never be infected with HIV. He discovered he was HIV positive in 2003.

“I didn’t think I was invincible, but I really didn’t think it would happen to me,” he said.

The two are among a growing number of young gay men in the United States contracting the virus.

New data from the Whitman-Walker Clinic suggest that the number of infections in D.C. has jumped considerably just in the last year. The Clinic revealed earlier this month that the number of its clients testing positive for HIV jumped from 80 in the first half of 2007 to 266 in the first half of 2008 — an unprecedented increase of 232 percent.

Clinic officials said the findings are particularly alarming because the total number of people tested so far in 2008, about 6,500, is roughly the same number it tested during the first half of 2007, meaning the spike in cases was not a result of testing more people.

The Clinic’s numbers come on the heels of recent reports from the U.S. Centers for Disease Control & Prevention finding an increase in HIV infections among gays, particularly with young men.

A June report found that the average annual increase of infection was 12 percent in the 13-to-24-year-old group, compared to a 1 percent decline for 25-to-44-year-olds. In the younger bracket, there was a 15 percent increase among blacks.

Gerard Tyler, a 54-year-old gay man and D.C. resident who found he was infected with HIV in 1990, said the recent spike in infections is “troubling.”

Growing up in a Catholic family, Tyler said he had no knowledge about safe-sex practices.

“I find it hard to believe that people today are as naïve as I had been,” he said. “It just shows that people still are not using precautions.”
Despite the rising numbers, Victor and Damian said they believe young gay men look at HIV as less than a serious threat.

Before he was infected, Victor said he considered HIV to be a disease of an earlier generation.

“I belong to a generation of gay men that at least on some level might think of HIV as a historical footnote,” he said. “The absolute terror that people used to have about HIV has begun to wane a little bit.”

Victor said the HIV epidemic in the late ’80s and early ’90s that took place when he had not yet graduated from high school was a concept that “was happening on TV and was happening someplace else.”

Victor, who contracted HIV by having unprotected sex sometime in 2004 or 2005, said not realizing the threat of HIV was a factor in how he was infected.

“I do think that forgetting how real HIV is … I know certainly contributed to my contracting the disease and I’m sure contributes to other people like me,” he said.

Although Victor found a long-term boyfriend and has been with him for about six months, he said being HIV positive still carries a strong social stigma that has made dating “very, very difficult.”

“It’s something for the life of me that I just can’t scrub away, and there are people who won’t think about dating me because of it,” he said. “That makes it a very lonely, lonely place.”

Victor said he has sex with his boyfriend, who is HIV negative, but the two always use condoms.
Damian discovered in 2003 he was infected after having unprotected sex with his long-term boyfriend.

“In the heat of the moment, I would not use a condom because it took too long or because he didn’t have one or some silly reason like that,” he said.

Damian needed to start taking medication the first day he discovered he was infected. After about one year of taking a one-a-day pill, the virus was not detectable in his bloodstream.

He currently has another boyfriend who is also HIV positive.

John Gourley, a nurse who handles HIV/AIDS cases at the Whitman-Walker Clinic, said he thinks that the growing number of HIV infections is the result of both the growing acceptance of homosexuality and a lack of education on gay sex in schools.

“A lot of these men are telling me that when they were younger, first and foremost, they were not receiving the proper education in high schools,” he said. “A lot of schools now, mainly they teach abstinence, so there’s not a whole lot of support and education there.”

Gourley, who is gay, said teens are coming out at 15 or 16, practicing “risky behaviors” and “as a result are becoming positive later on.”

She said most of the patients who discover they have been recently infected range in age from 18 to 30. She noted a majority of the men who have recently contracted HIV are black, although whites and Latinos have also been newly infected.

Gourley said patients have a number of different reactions when they find they are HIV positive.
Many clients are “very much traumatized” and feel that they will be ostracized from their families and their communities, he said.

But a handful of other clients, commonly known as “bug chasers,” want to become infected with the disease, Gourley said, and feel some relief after contracting HIV because they feel like they won’t have to wait for the ...

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kjbdc on 8/24/08  9:19 PM:
This is so sad. A number of years ago I could have believed that you didn't know how you became infected with HIV. However, anyone infected today knows exactly how it happened. . . . "oops I slipped" . . . oops I forgot." . . . Wear a condom and live, don't wear one and die. And to all the 20 year olds foregoing condoms . . . the drug cocktails work for a while, until they destroy your liver and other internal organs.

 

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