Aug 08, 2008   | COMMENTS     

The gay experience in Washington buzzes around 17th Street, NW, just off one of the arms of Dupont Circle where businesses like JR.’s and Annie’s abound. But all is not
perfect in this queer Mecca and new ANC Commissioner Jack Jacobson is in the middle of the ongoing push and pull there between residents, business owners and
customers (about half of the 17th Street stretch runs through his Commission).

The 30-year-old lobbyist — who grew up in Montana, North Dakota and South Dakota before coming to Washington eight-and-a-half years ago — hopes to maintain what he considers a happy balance there. He won the seat in a special election in March but will have to fight to keep it in November when all the ANC Commissioners face reelection. When not lobbying for energy and environmental issues with Brownstein Hyatt Farber Schreck or addressing concerns from his ANC constituents, Jacobson, who’s single, enjoys weekends at Rehoboth Beach, hanging out at Cobalt and JR.’s and hosting elaborate dinner parties. He’s happy to report he was cleared of all charges at a murder mystery soiree he hosted last weekend.

How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?

I came out at age 19. It was most difficult to tell my aunt — she was the first family member I came out to. After her, the rest were much easier.

Who’s your gay hero?

Congresswoman Tammy Baldwin. She’s the first member of Congress to run for office the first time as a lesbian and proved that you can be out and effectively represent all of your constituents — gay and straight.

What is Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?

Cobalt. I’m slightly biased, of course, since I live a block away and represent it on the ANC. Retro Night and the underwear contest are still some of the best nights in town.

If gay marriage were legal, would you tie the knot?

Absolutely. To express your love and devotion to your partner in front of your loved ones is something everyone should have the opportunity to experience.

What non-gay issue are you most passionate about?

Energy and the environment. I’m an environmental lobbyist and I have first-hand knowledge of what we can do as a society to save ourselves. The problem is getting our elected officials to listen. I’m doing my part every day, but it’s a constant struggle.

What historical outcome would you change?

The Holocaust/Hitler coming to power.

What has been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?

The 1996 Olympics when Kerri Strug stuck her second vault landing. That was amazing.

On what reality TV show would you fare best?

“Top Chef.” I love to cook, but would definitely take some classes before my season began.

What item of clothing has been in your closet since high school?

A hideous yellow rain jacket from the Gap. Ugh.

If your life were a book, what would the title be?

“No Regrets.”

If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?

Speak out against it, but allow people to make their own informed decisions. I’m happy just the way I am and I wouldn’t change my life for anything.

What do you believe in beyond the physical world?

I believe everything happens for a reason. Is there a higher power that decides those reasons? Possibly.

What would you order for your last meal?

Steak and potatoes — a solid mid-Western meal.

What would you walk across hot coals for?

To aid my friends in times of need.

What gay stereotype annoys you most?

Stereotypes exist because we allow them to and we perpetuate them as a society. I don’t believe in them.

What is the best gay film ever made?

“Brokeback Mountain.” It’s a real love story without clichés and it has real hardships every gay person can relate to.

What is the most overrated social custom?

High school reunions. If I wanted to see the people I went to high school with, I would make time more than once every 10 years.

What trophy or prize do you most covet?

I would love to be a member of Congress. I think it would be the best job in the world. They get to pass laws that can truly make the world a better place.

What’s your advice for gay teens?

Be true to yourselves. It’s difficult to come out, and then to be out, but have faith in yourselves. Surround yourselves with supportive and encouraging friends — you’ll need their strength throughout your life.

Why Washington?

I was a government major in college and hoped I could get a job in Washington. I was lucky enough to land a great one. Now, I’m in love with the city and particularly with Dupont Circle. I can’t imagine any other place I’d rather be.