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Idol worship, the Martha edition

In my unplanned (and perhaps even unconscious) attempt to be a flaming gay stereotype, I am obsessed with Martha Stewart.

I've subscribed to the magazine (until the last couple of years as a gift from one of my lovely grandmothers, who's sadly died) for years, and I keep all of them, going through back issues each month to remind myself of all the things I could do in their seasonally appropriate time slot.

I have a number of her books, including a wonderful out-of-print cookbook on pies and tarts from the '80s (when old-school Martha would whip up a tart for her and her husband while they were doing taxes on a snowy day at their farm in Westport). I even have undertaken a craft project of making a wreath covered with fresh cranberries (actually, I've done it twice.)

Anyway, my latest insanity has taken the form of reading Martha's daily blog.

What could be better than getting a daily dose of Martha-mania with pictures of her French Bulldogs, Francesca (the black one) and Sharkey (the fawn-colored friend)? (Sadly, her 13 year-old Chow Chow, named Paw Paw, died in the last month. I sent her a conciliatory comment during that day's post.)

Yesterday's post was all about what to name the miniature Hereford cattle she's babysitting for a friend, and there was even a vote involved (I went for Isabel and Ferdinand, a perfect match, I think).

My actual love of all-things-Martha goes slightly beyond just fetishization. I really believe in what she's created. It wasn't until I dove into her empire that I started to understand the term "domestic arts."

There really is an art to making a home a place of refuge, peace, joy, love, warmth and beauty, and more often than not in our harried world, we don't allow time for that. I take perverse delight in making my own puff pastry and having brioche dough in the freezer at-the-ready for a Sunday morning breakfast.

Pulling a jar of blackberry bay-leaf preserves (Martha recipe) out of my pantry to spread on homemade waffles brings me (and my husband) endless delight.

And what homo wouldn't love creating a wreath of fake roses, spray-painted black as a campy and fab Halloween decoration? (That wreath is still in my closet with the rest of the Halloween décor.)

As a sneak peek this week, in Dish there's going to be a bit about Rosie O'Donnell asking Martha what she most missed in prison, and Martha, while in the detention center, replied "The flavor of lemon." Now, that is a true gay diva. To hell with the family, friends, and freedom. And knowing Martha's love for lemon-flavoring (especially Meyer lemons), this answer made perfect sense to me.

Some might criticize her for taking things a bit too far (and that August 2005 Vanity Fair cover article on her which intimated that she never let her horses see sunlight so their coloring would match her overall palate at the new home didn't help), but I say why shouldn't she strive to achieve the very best? Why plant 20 daffodil bulbs when, over a period of years, you could plant thousands? (This year's April issue.)

Perhaps my favorite April issue was after she returned from prison, and she graced the cover. Spring had returned, and like a goddess ascending from the underworld, she was up with the flowers and ready to expand her empire beyond anyone's wildest imaginings.

I've already planned that when Martha moves on to become a beloved ancestor (hopefully, many, many, many years from now), I'll give her one year and then I'm creating a shrine to her.

Some might call me sad, twisted or even desperately sick, but to that, I raise my glass of homemade wine crafted from grapes I grew myself and nourished with my own compost and say, "It's a good thing."

Posted by Greg Marzullo, Washington Blade Features Editor | May. 8 at 2:58 PM | GMarzullo@washblade.com

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ErikDC on 5/8/08  5:06 PM:
Good for you. I've seen Martha's show a few times and don't think I could be bothered making crafts of that sort. Still, I think it's cool that some people do. Different strokes for different folks!


Alexis? Who's Alexis?

At a Blade staff meeting today, someone made a passing reference to Alexis (it’s a gay paper, such references aren’t uncommon in open meetings here). To my astonishment, two 20-something staff members reacted with blank stares.

“Alexis? Who’s Alexis?” one otherwise respected and intrepid reporter responded. Thank God for YouTube. For our 20-something readers unfamiliar with “Dynasty,” the essence of Alexis is but a click away. For our older readers, here’s a shock: That infamous scene of Alexis and Krystal fighting in a pool aired 25 years ago. Damn I feel old.

Posted by Kevin Naff, Washington Blade Editor | May. 8 at 2:48 PM | knaff@washblade.com

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Madonna announces tour

Madonna will embark on her "Sticky & Sweet" tour this fall, and sorry, local Washington Blade readers, she's skipped D.C. again.

The tour will be directed by Madonna's long time creative collaborator Jamie King. The musical director will be Kevin Antunes.

Tour and on sale dates:

03-Oct - E. Rutherford Izod Center - Mon. May 19
06-Oct - New York City Madison Square Garden - Mon. May 19
07-Oct - New York City Madison Square Garden - Mon. May 19
15-Oct - Boston TD BankNorth Garden - Sat. May 17
18-Oct - Toronto Air Canada Centre - Sat. May 24
22-Oct - Montreal Bell Centre - Sat. May 24
26-Oct - Chicago United Center - Sat. May 17
30-Oct - Vancouver BC Place Stadium - Sat. May 24
01-Nov - Oakland Oracle Arena - Sun. June 1
04-Nov - San Diego Petco Park - Sun. June 1
06-Nov - Los Angeles Dodger Stadium - Sun. June 1
08-Nov - Las Vegas MGM Grand Garden Arena - Sat. May 31
11-Nov - Denver Pepsi Center - Sat. May 31
16-Nov - Houston Minute Maid Park - Sat. May 31
19-Nov - Philadelphia Wachovia Center - Mon. June 2
22-Nov - Atlantic City Boardwalk Hall - Mon. June 2
24-Nov - Atlanta Philips Arena - Sat. May 31
26-Nov - Miami Dolphin Stadium - Sat. May 31

Posted by Rebecca Armendariz, Online Editor | May. 8 at 2:29 PM | RArmendariz@washblade.com

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ErikDC on 5/8/08  5:13 PM:
I see she's going to be in California in the days leading up to the election November 4th. She better be doing some events to help defeat the California marriage amendment.


Icon alert! Cher and Tina on Oprah today

On Oprah today, icons Tina Turner and Cher take the stage to interview and perform together from Caesars Palace in Las Vegas.

Cher's wearing some sort of blue glittery wig that also covers her breasts, so this is bound to be good!

"I do believe I've got the best card hand on The Strip," Oprah said. "Today, I'm holding a pair of queens."

Watch a preview here.

 

 

Posted by Rebecca Armendariz, Online Editor | May. 8 at 12:30 PM | RArmendariz@washblade.com

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Hillary, the time has come

Last night's results in the North Carolina and Indiana primaries have left Sen. Hillary Rodham Clinton out of options. She ran a tough and spirited campaign that will be talked about for a generation. But it’s over.

The time has come for Clinton to adopt a gracious and conciliatory tone, end her campaign and endorse Sen. Barack Obama for president.

Tuesday night was, indeed, a game changer. Clinton suffered a drubbing in North Carolina — a “big” state, in her terminology — and barely squeaked out a win in Indiana. She needed a convincing win there and a strong finish in the Tar Heel state to convince voters and, more importantly, donors that she still had a chance to win over the dwindling number of uncommitted superdelegates.

As someone who endorsed Clinton early in the campaign (well before the mainstream media went ga-ga over Obama after his Iowa victory), I saw her as the party’s best chance to beat the GOP nominee and the candidate with the most relevant international experience to tackle the myriad crises inflicted on us by George Bush.

Unfortunately, all the talk of experience and competence was belied by a campaign rife with incompetence. From Bill Clinton’s ruinous (and arguably racist) campaign swing through South Carolina, to an obvious failure to craft a strategy past Super Tuesday, her campaign staff made so many miscalculations that Hillary went from a coronation to a shocking defeat.

And her behavior during the recent and infamous ABC News debate was over the line. During that debate, Charles Gibson and George Stephanopoulos grilled Obama over the Rev. Wright controversy and, incredibly, his thoughts on wearing flag pins. Obama was overdue for some more aggressive questioning from the mainstream media, but not on those topics.

Rather than insist on taking the questioning to a higher level, Clinton gleefully joined the Obama bashing that night. The Obama campaign should never have agreed to a debate in which Stephanopoulos was asking the questions. As a veteran of the first Clinton administration, he could hardly be expected to approach the event with any modicum of objectivity. He’s a celebrity talking head, not a journalist.

In sharp contrast to Clinton’s transparent, over-the-top pandering (downing shots with the locals and touting a phony love of guns), Obama has managed to stay above the fray, even during the darkest moments of the Wright saga. He could have gone sharply negative in the run-up to North Carolina and Indiana, as some advised him to do. Instead, he stuck to his own metaphorical guns and rose above the faux controversies and petty attacks. Even in victory Tuesday night, Obama praised Clinton and promised that his supporters would back her if she emerged as the party nominee.

But she didn’t emerge victorious and the time has come for her supporters, gay and straight, to embrace Obama’s campaign for the White House. The stakes are too high to allow primary race disappointments to demoralize Democratic voters. And the stakes for gay voters are higher.


Just yesterday, Sen. John McCain reiterated his intention to appoint conservative justices in the mold of Samuel Alito and John Roberts to the Supreme Court.

In addition, McCain this week announced creation of his “Justice Advisory Committee,” which will offer advice on Supreme Court picks. Among the members of that group is Sen. Sam Brownback (R-Kan.), a staunch conservative and notorious opponent of gay rights.

A McCain presidency would set back the cause of gay rights by a generation. A 50-year-old justice could serve 30 years or more on the high court. With same-sex marriage continuing to roil legislatures and courts across the country, it’s only a matter of time before the Supreme Court will be asked to weigh in on recognition of same-sex relationships.

Last week, I moderated a panel discussion on national politics at the annual Equality Forum in Philadelphia. The most heated exchange of the night came when I asked Patrick Sammon of the Log Cabin Republicans whether his group would endorse McCain. He replied that a decision on an endorsement had not yet been made but that Log Cabin was in talks with McCain’s campaign.

Sammon offered praise for McCain’s opposition to a federal marriage amendment.

Indeed, McCain’s opposition to the odious amendment was important and appreciated. But that’s where his support for gay rights begins and ends. McCain opposes the federal Employment Non-Discrimination Act, repealing “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” and extending the federal hate crimes law to cover gays.

Most disturbingly, he supported his home state of Arizona’s ballot initiative that would have banned not only marriage, but civil unions and even domestic partnerships. That extreme Arizona measure remains the only such referendum to be defeated by voters.

It is unconscionable for Log Cabin to entertain a McCain endorsement. Yes, it can be argued that McCain is better on gay issues than Bush, but that’s not saying much. Let’s not be fooled twice by a supposedly moderate Republican candidate. Bush won in 2000 after a pledge of “compassionate conservatism,” which proved an empty slogan. In its place we saw cruel attacks on gay rights, an effort to pervert the U.S. Constitution to discriminate against gays and even public ridicule of our committed, loving relationships during the State of the Union Address.

Log Cabin’s work is important and, as Sammon pointed out, no civil rights struggle has been won with the support of a single political party. Republican allies are critical to passage of gay rights legislation, especially when Democrats are so prone to going wishy-washy on us after they win elections with near unanimous gay support.

But with the Supreme Court in the balance, no gay voter should pull the lever for McCain in November. Sammon’s predecessor, Patrick Guerriero, took a principled stand — for which he was unfairly criticized by some gay Republicans — and declined to endorse President Bush in 2004. Sammon should follow that example and Log Cabin should resist going to bat for someone who has publicly pledged to appoint justices hostile to gay rights advances.

Meanwhile, Hillary Clinton’s gay supporters should take a day to mourn her defeat and then join Obama’s cause. She’s resilient and will bounce back, probably as Senate majority leader, a job much more in line with her skills than that of president.


And Obama should continue to reach out to Hillary’s disaffected supporters and work to unite the party. It’s time for Hillary’s gay donors and volunteers to look past short-term disappointments and consider the long-term impact of a McCain administration. It’s a scary thought that renders all other considerations moot.

Posted by Kevin Naff, Washington Blade Editor | May. 7 at 1:38 PM | knaff@washblade.com

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Derrick on 5/9/08  12:47 AM:
Gee, and here I've been spending all my time on black blogs (cause I'm black and gay) defending Obama against the many blacks calling for his blood due to their reaction to Rev. Wright's rants and how they feel the man was appropriate in stepping center stage into this campaign. Now I find out that on top of all that he's thin-skinned too. Oh my. If ever there was a candidate "catching hell" from all sides and still keeping his focus and his cool---that be Obama.
bmf6c on 5/8/08  6:08 PM:
Thanks for finally giving Obama credit. I supported Obama because of how he engages on issues and how he tries to avoid lowest common denominator politics. The South Carolina stuff; saying that Obama wasn't qualified to be Pres. and then suggesting he'd be a good VP; and other Clinton campaign tomfoolery bothered me. Hill will do anything to win. Clinton v. McCain=bloodbath. We don't need polarization. We need a leader that can forge a consensus to tackle issues. Clinton cannot do that.
Suedehead on 5/8/08  1:47 PM:
Kevin, Your anaylsis is spot on. The Clinton campaign was flawed from the start. First the decision to run her as an incumbent, which led to having no post-Super Tuesday strategy and up through her decision to talk about the "total obliteration" of Iran. Train wreck. It's time to run against John McCain already. This infighting is saddening and destructive. The person best able to unify the party now is Senator Clinton. Let's hope she does the right thing. And soon!
pcj2 on 5/8/08  11:51 AM:
Maloof, Please offer proof that the Obamas feels that they believe the White House should be handed to them on a silver platter. Also, in order to counter charges that your comments are, at best, racially insensitive, please explain why they would have such feelings only because they are black. If you can't offer any proof and/or explanation, forgive me for labelling your rant fatuous, facile and an obvious tautology. P.S. - The Bell Curve doesn't count.
Maloof on 5/8/08  10:46 AM:
Thank you Mr. Chris for proving my point. Maybe Donnie McClurkin will be available to entertain at your convention. Good luck with that.
Mr Chris on 5/8/08  1:27 AM:
Maloof, It's nice to know we have White Gay racists. You probably feel that Whites should be given everything after all they run the circuit. Barack doesn't feel that way and never has. Get over skin color. OK But then again being gay and voting for McCain you'll finally see what it feels like to be a SECOND CLASS citizen. Do us a favor and don't vote for a Dem in Nov This will only DESTROY the LGBT Community with conservatism and you'll be SORRY! And Kevin this time I like this article
Maloof on 5/7/08  9:34 PM:
Obama and his supporters are showing themselves to be extremely thin-skinned when it comes to criticism. This will not bode well for the general election. Because they are Black, he and his wife feel they are entitled to be handed the White House on a silver platter, to go to the front of the line simply because of their race, and they become outraged if anyone dares question them. Frankly, the guy gives me the creeps in a kind of Jim Jones sort of way. Will vote McCain.
stephenclark on 5/7/08  8:03 PM:
I appreciate Kevin's conciliatory editorial. The one thing I don't understand, though, is all this talk about making Hillary the Senate majority leader. Since when did majority leader become a consolation prize? It isn't a mere honorific. She might've been a good fit six months ago, but how does it help the party to have a majority leader who is now viewed by a majority of voters as untrustworthy?
TJ.Just.TJ on 5/7/08  5:05 PM:
This is the first time that I've actually agreed with Kevin on this subject (since I am a Barack supporter). I understand that it is ultimately up to Hillary to end her campaign, but what is she trying to accomplish? The speech she made last night was sounding like a concession at first(which I was hoping for), only for her to say that she was going to continue. To what end? This is not an emotional thing for me. As a mathematician, it's all about the numbers to me. She just can't win.


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